I had a quarrel with my friends during the junior high. Because of my rude behavior and selfish thoughts to my friends for long time, they tried to ignore me as a revenge. At first, I was confused about why they didn’t talk to me, but still said “Hello!” to each other in the morning. Then, I wrote a letter to ask them why they did so to me, but they didn’t give any reply.
After that, I started to think about what I’ve done to my friends. I finally realized that I really treated my friends with rudeness and let out my bad temper on them with some contemplation. I found that I treated my friends in the way which I did to my family. I would do impolite actions and said something rude to them. I thought that I took them just as my family. So I could do those rude action which I thought were a behavior of showing our close friendship. I deemed so before. But actually, my thought was totally wrong. Therefore, I was always in my shoes, I had no idea of others’ feeling.
When I figured the reason why my friends didn’t be with me anymore out, I wrote another letter to them to apologize. I talked to them face to face and apologize to them, too. They forgave me and were surprised with my attitude. I’m still thankful for my friends now. Because they took the action to remind me that what I’ve done is inappropriate to them in time, I can get along with others well now and learn a lesson!
